Thank you job. W never talks about D, and doesn't seem to be going anywhere, but I still like your suggestion to leave the word marriage out of it for now. I agree, timing is everything.

Wonka: Great advice on the asking open ended questions, and asking how can I help. I've become a great listener, and W does open up to me, about work problems and other stuff. It just seems I need to start saying more about what I need to move this forward. At least that's what my ants keep telling me.

Originally Posted By: Wonkers
Dead people don't have to deal with day-to-day chit. See what I am saying here?


Yes, but I could never kill my W!!!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl