Sounds like you're getting antsy over there. Why is that?

Do you understand that for her heart to change it will take time?

Do not ask if she wants D, unless you are sure YOU are DONE.

But if you are sure, I'd ask a different question: Him or me? Michele calls this is the "After the last resort" technique, the ultimatum.

Never mind MC right now. It only helps when W is in, and OM is out.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl