A quick post to mention what my plan is for this weekend. As you know by now my W & I have separated as of November 1, I moved out & W started seeing old boyfriend from HS, after not seeing eachother for 25+ years. On Saturday we have to complete some paperwork to finish up a bankruptcy. I am going to ask the W the question "do you want to get a divorce or is our marriage worth saving?". I'm not even going to mention the OM at all & based on her answer I will suggest marriage counseling. If W wants a D then I will accept that as well. I know it's a drastic move but I need a sense of closure. Based on what I know I feel it's gonna be the D answer.
I need some advice on if thus the right thing to do!
