Agreed about how hard to detach when in same house. My H is the same (As you know). His good streak ended tonight. He was just stomping and screaming and throwing stuff and yelling at me because he couldn't find his glasses. I knew exactly where they were- right on the floor where he fell off the chair and passed out. I got them for him just to shut him up.

Ughh hopefully we can both "let it go" and get some sleep. I really need to try since S will be up in 6 hours.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15