On to Divorce and still litigating...new life.

[FloydMan]

Well after cancelling on kids trip with kids at Christmas and then going away on her own and abandoning them at New Years with no notice, I get a letter from her lawyer rejecting my offer to settle (which was generous) then in same letter asking if exW can take the kids away in March including 6 days of my access and only 4 of hers. Guess she wants to save face with them. We have not settled on all the schedule for the year and are still litigating schedules, she owes me money and litigating on that front. She tells the kids already before she asked me so that was manipulative. Welcome to the rest of my life. My L is saying no to the request unless all matters are settled. Would have said yes if she acted appropriately and asked directly instead of driving more legal costs through counsel. I also got a collections notice of failure to pay a local toll hwy for $1300 that she has not been paying her usage on. She cannot continue to act this way, breaking court orders and using the kids as pawns with emotional guilt. Come to think of it, this has been my life for quite some time...nothing changes. This is why we are divorcing....manipulative, controlling and underhanded behaviour. The sense of entitlement holds no bounds. Still awaiting her counter offer of settlement. I am sure it will be a joke.