Tiger, I'm glad you checked in. Sounds like you are taking care of you and handling your H really well.
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"Maybe there is something wrong with me," "I think I realize now I have been depressed since the LAST time I lost my job," "My feelings are very confused right now, I don't know what I want," "I know you are a wonderful and good person, I don't know how I couldn't see it for awhile." I have validated the confusion. Didn't know WHAT to say about "maybe there is something wrong with him" ... I just STFU on that one in the moment.
I think it's great that he is telling you this stuff and that you are able to STFU. I've never been so good on that point. :-)
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson