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I should have said, and I guess there has been so much I missed it, she had another miscarriage. I know this is true, because she left the doctors stuff on the counter. I don't how I would manage that, lol. We had one this summer, our first try at having kids. The doctor warned her it would be that much easier the next time. But, yeah. When she told me about the miscarriage, I actually felt bad. Even though it was not by me, I felt bad because we had gone through this ourselves this past summer. I told her this too, that I felt bad, and that it felt weird, but that I did, because I knew how hard that was for us/her.


Oh okay. Thanks for straightening that out for me. I am rather amazed at your compassion, under the circumstances. It tells me a little more about what kind of heart you have, even if you were sounding a bit punitive in a couple of places. And it's understandable b/c there are not too many who gets all this 100% the first few weeks. You have a lot ahead of you. A lot to learn.....and you'll make some mistakes, but you will have support here as long as you'll stick with us and keep on keeping on.

Coming to the board will not only give you information and support, but it will help you to get through those lonely/boring times. When you aren't writing on your own thread, read other threads and you'll see how much you have in common and learn even more. And you can encourage other newcomers......even just letting them know they aren't alone and you are listening to what they have to say.

I am so glad you read Another Stander's message in time to make a difference in how you would face things when arriving home. Sometimes we just need that shot of encouragement at the right time to give us extra boost to face the evening. He (AS) has a positive attitude in his postings, and I believe you will be able to benefit even further from his support.

One thing I have noticed in the threads from what I think of as "successful" DBers, is how important GAL is. If you aren't familiar with the term "getting a life", let us know and we can fill you in.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!