You will be ok. So will I. I'm happy that you are in a place you can acknowledge that.

Sounds like you raised a mature and responsible teen. WOW! My step kids would never do all that without being asked. And I think they are good kids so you should be really proud.

As for your H. It doesn't sound like there is much for you to like right now. What ever is going on with him isn't your problem. He has to deal with it or continue to not deal. His life.

Btw are you still doing the weight loss challenge at work? I have to find some inspiration. My go to comfort foods have been getting to much play.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15