IMHO, I think NC def has it's pro's. However; I think just like DR says I think it takes the WAS finally getting to the end of themselves and everything/everyone that kept them comfortable totally falling into shambles before they have that 'AH HA' moment. You can ignore a million text and/or phone calls but ultimately like everything else in this process you only control the person you will be. One thing i've learned is to be content with the little things. One thing that's a BIG take from DR is goal setting... i.e. what will it look/feel like when 'blank' happens. I think it's truly invaluable, because we get so caught up in the tactics that we lost sight of the opportunity to grow.
I think there a positives to be taken from your sitch if you go back to the begining. Feed the positive, starve the negative.
