magic, in my sitch, i realized i myself could not forgive her PA. as torn as i was with wanting her back (which i explained earlier) i also realized any reconciliation would ultimately fail because i would never truly forgive and forget. i would never be able to get past it. without any doubt, i would have become the WAS.
now, to be very clear, this is me. other people have been able do that level of work, they are stronger than i am, or have a different disposition, or they love their SO more than i did.
but now YOU must decide that if you reconcile, are you willing to put in the amount of effort necessary to truly forgive him?
otherwise, it wont be long until we're here giving him advice.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
