he gets mad when I do that. He feels like I didnt hear him the first time.

Feel free to call it lipservice... I know whats in my heart and I am sorry. I do try to work on this.. continually. Which is how the term "pitbull/dog with a bone" comes into effect. I continually try to explain myself without success, and it gets misinterpreted.

So, I understand you want me to repeat back what I received so that it shows I am listening and understand....got it.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)