It could be a temp check... At the same time nothing has meaning, only the meaning you give it. So instead of saying she's temp checking you could say: She wants to know how i'm doing. I think one thing to remember is your goal at all times. Take the actions that will help you produce the desired outcome, realize what works and what doesn't and develop the flexibility to change your behavior until you get the outcome you want. Don't forget the goal Dingo...