So yesterday WAW took the boys to children/family health counselor as she wanted to find out ways to respond to their questions about whats happening with the DB and for the boys to have someone to talk with. That night after the kids went to bed I asked how things went. She went into full robot/business mode and told me what the counselor suggested for us to do/try. She was just so straight faced and to the point. (not the normal caring mother she use to be) Its so dam hard to listen to her when she is in business mode.
Then this morning she calls and asked me if I could do her a favor as she needed some bank statements (from our closed account) for her attorney. I told her she was going to have to call and request that information from the bank and if they needed my authorization I will give it to them. She tried to beg and plea a bit more and mentioned something about a fee associated with it and If I could just print them out for her. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I finally told her no, and that calling them was her best bet.
I get so frustrated whenever she brings up the attorneys or divorce She goes into full business mode and acts like im someone else. (i cannot stand it) She will bring up Divorce like shes talking about going to the grocery store. Like its the greatest thing to do. Like its no big deal and this is our only path now. Like I dont even matter to her anymore. Like Im her enemy.
Agrarrrgagghhh!!! Is this common/normal for WAS to act like this. Its so hard to take, its so pain full. What can I do.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
