"I really feel that if you could see my life, hear my words ... you would understand me better. There is so much misinterpretation in messages"
You have a problem of not accepting responsibility. Have you ever thought that since there are so many people who seemed to have "taken your message the wrong way", that maybe you are the one with the problem with communicating? How about working on that rather than saying WE are misreading you.
"AND AGAIN.... PLEEASE everyone.... I know I p!ss many of you off...this is not my intent. but, I really feel that if you could see my life, hear my words ... you would understand me better."
O brother. We ALL hear your words. You're just not hearing yourself.
"There is so much misinterpretation in messages... I hate it... for example: Gabby, I was genuinely asking with soft tone "are you sure?, because I thought there were rules/guidelines/script that I could be following"
When you capitalize something like "EXPERIENCED" (I thought that there were DB guidelines on how to react to this stuff? or at least EXPERIENCED members who could share???)
It appears as if you are devaluing GM's opinion.
"... and somehow MrBond took it the complete wrong way... and then it spiraled. ... and it insulted everyone! F-me!!"
Oh so now you're blaming me. You have a terrible way of not taking responsibility. In fact, nobody read what I wrote as being insulting. They read what YOU wrote. So now I'm your scapegoat like you blame your H for things. I think I'm getting a clearer picture of how he was being treated.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.