No 2x4s for you. You sound like you know what you are doing. As long as it doesn't bother you. My experience with W staying over is on my thread and is much different than yours . I agree you H is probably missing home. I have sympathy for our WAS's but I can't live my life to accomodate mine anymore.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14