PM. I think these are good steps for your W, and great that you are staying out of her way.
Here's what I wonder. If and when she finally feels independent, or OK on her own, or whatever it is . . . can you two come back together without her losing that?
That's what I hope for, and it would be a fresh start on a new R. We don't need another completely codependent marriage - that isn't healthy.
Originally Posted By: melissag
Is letting her call the shots something you can live with forever?
No, that wouldn't be something that would last into perpetuity. We would start a new relationship once she gets "there", and letting her drive the bus is a means of transport (I hope).
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
