WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!! You guys TOTALLY misread that!! I am soooooooooo sorry if it came across that way... I totally appreciate ALL advice given. Experienced or not.

What I meant was that I am looking for MLC experiences (such as Sandi, or Wonka, or whoever... that Has dealt with MLC and the fereal cat/squirrel ....

THATS ALL !!

And as for my post above.. I was not asking to show him how angry and hurt I am.... again, MISREAD... I was asking if I should pretend to be happy around him (as part of DB'ing? even though I received a new bomb)

Imm really disappointed.... I really thought that I turned a corner and you guys would see by the way I had posted in this new thread... WOW (scratching my head)... Misinterpreted Again!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)