Thank you job! I needed to pulled up and reminded! I appreciate your words!

LoisB, thank you for telling me a little about your sitch. I will look up your thread! My H left briefly back in 2000...kinda like your H he has done some dumb things thru the years.

job it makes sense what you are saying about poor coping skills! My H "seems" or appears to handle those fits and starts well on the outside...obviously, he must not be handling them at all on the inside! He is good in emergency situations where I am a mess! I am the opposite...I fall apart immediately and then calm down and move on. I need to work on doing that now!!!

BD-Aug 2009
OW Confirmed
H moves out Dec 2009
D filed by H-Mar 2010
H asks to come home April 2011
BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW!
H ran away again! 1-18-2014