thanks Bug! W's actions are helping me make up my mind about what I think I want. We'll see. All three of my kids were not confortable.

W got up this morning, said nothing to me, took half the coffee in the pot and left without saying a word. She wasn't supposed to be there anyway.

Like you said before, some of the things I'm seeing now, are also indicative of how she'll be as a partner.

We'll see....Laying low about it today.

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14