It's great your D16 is aware enough and feels safe enough to tell you those things. Can you give her the tools and support to help her share her feelings with W?
Boundaries, your W has none. It's your job to protect you.
There's a book by Cloud and Townsend, Boundaries that you might find helpful. Their website also has some video advice on R stuff.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
