CW, I'm sorry that you weren't able to share your wonderful news w/your h...but he may very well be reading on line and/or some of your friends may tell him.
As a general rule, they generally do speed up a bit more the second time around. When the change the address and phone number, it's always a hit to the gut, so to speak. Hopefully he will find himself this time around and face his demons and become a more mature, settled man.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
