I feel my marriage is done

[indigo1]

Keep your changes going and try to stay busy. As far as family pictures and stuff my W did the same thing after kicking me out. First time I was actually allowed to pick up my D from the house it was like I never existed in her life. It really hurt at the time to see that, but I know why W did it. I was finally asked to come home after four months of separation and a lot of ups and downs.

Trust me, things can and probably will change over night. My W went from I'll never be able to take you back to let's try dating. I'm falling in love with you all over again. Two days later when when we hug the feeling is gone, it's like your my brother. We need to live our own lives, it's in gods hands. To three weeks after that you can come back home. Rings back on, photos back up.

I know my separation was only 4 months, but wow talk about a emotional roller coaster! If your W has noticed the changes keep them up. That is the one thing I made sure of in my mess and W did notice. Sure we slip up occasionally this is hard stuff. Hang in there if its a battle you are willing to take. There were several times I almost gave up thinking it was over based on what my W said or did. It can just a quickly turn for the better trust me.