looks like patience is really going to be a problem for you.

I'm pretty sure MrB said further back, keep it business ONLY? So why would you ask if sending her a WAW video be ok? Wouldn't that be EXACTLY like talking about the marriage? /sarcasim off

If your actions include: looking up more websites WAW videos or stop drinking soda, then you, are still not LISTENING. I can almost hear your wife saying you don't listen with everyone of your responses now.

He asked what you are doing for YOU. less soda, really???

Are you sure you read DR, have you even read the 37 rules? You can lead a horse to water, but you cant make him drink.