Yes Wonka, you are right, February for the future DIL's 21st. The focus will be on that, then we can talk about the next focus :-)

Thanks very much Wonka for all the continued help.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.