Right now, I don't even know my W. Who is this person? Yuk! To keep my family together though, I have to act disinterested, focus on me so it' appears I am not desperate which I totally am, yet be the person she doesn't want to divorce, while she is wanting me to stay the person she wants to divorce, be a better husband than I was back when she liked me even though she now hates my guts and do all of this while I like her less than ever before! Piece of cake.