Well got a text out of the blue today saying divorce was filed and what time was convenient for me to be served. Conversation that followed went something like this.
Him: just give me a time I can serve the papers Me: ok I'll let you know a good time. Have you informed uscis? (immigration I only asked this because I was told I could get in trouble not reporting a status change) Him: no, and that's none of your concern Me: actually it is, as I can get in trouble Him: you're vindictive and selfish. Just face you ruined our marriage, you're not perfect, and move on with your life and don't take me down. (ouch!) Me: I just want to make sure I'm protected. I feel compassion for your situation but I need to look out for myself. Him: fine then in six months well be done don't worry about it. Me: ok. We also need to arrange pick up of your things. Him: ok we can do that Me: does march work for you? Him: yes Me: what day? Him: the 8th? Me: ok cool I'll schedule you in. By the way don't go to *** store. (I'm a microbiologist and do microbe testing), as its failing microbe testing. Him: that's outrageous thanks! Me: np, despite what you think I don't want to see you dead :P Him: I'm sorry about what I texted earlier. Words get lost in texts sometimes. Me: I know that's cool. Well hopefully I get new job at *** so I don't have to avoid anymore stores lol. Although chances are slim a lot of competition. Him: you're smart you'll get it. Good luck! Me: thanks
So I'm depressed about divorce being filed and if it does go through I will be dropping the rope. I'm young enough where I still want a family with someone and experience that. Actually I'm considering doing it sooner...i don't know how I feel yet. I just know I've felt happier by myself lately in general (not always) is this a temp feeling or am I fading out of this relationship. I even find myself considering dates, chemist at work asked...although work relationships are off the table lol...ive done that mistake before
