I'm going through the very same thing right now. About snooping; you really don't want to know, man. People are downright colder in cyberspace especially when texting to their divorced friends. Mean! Stay away. Plus people text and say things they don't really mean sometimes. Don't think so? Keep a dairy of your own about your wife for a week. Go back and read it and ask yourself 'would I want my W to see this?
