Update on movie night. W came over after I left. I got thebkids dinner before I went out. D13 asked if I'd. Be back to see movies. I said no. That was for mom and you guys. I'd. Stay out until later to let you enjoy.

W proceeded to take a shower, dress in PJ s and make a bed on couch. D13 and D16 asked what she was doing. W looked puzzled and hurt that they seemed uncomfortable. When I arrived home at 10. No one was with W. All kids were in there rooms and W was sleeping on couch.

D 16 called me into her roomto tellme all this...asked me to please explain to W that they just got used to her being gone and making a home with me and that this upset them. They were thinking W wanted to come home. I told her no.

W DID NOT TELL ME SHE WAS DOING THIS. UGH. BOUNDARIES!


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14