Update on movie night. W came over after I left. I got thebkids dinner before I went out. D13 asked if I'd. Be back to see movies. I said no. That was for mom and you guys. I'd. Stay out until later to let you enjoy.
W proceeded to take a shower, dress in PJ s and make a bed on couch. D13 and D16 asked what she was doing. W looked puzzled and hurt that they seemed uncomfortable. When I arrived home at 10. No one was with W. All kids were in there rooms and W was sleeping on couch.
D 16 called me into her roomto tellme all this...asked me to please explain to W that they just got used to her being gone and making a home with me and that this upset them. They were thinking W wanted to come home. I told her no.
W DID NOT TELL ME SHE WAS DOING THIS. UGH. BOUNDARIES!
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14