Your H falls into the "bad" WAS category. He wants everything done his way and will throw a tantrum and threaten when you start standing up for yourself.
Get legal representation no matter what he says or threatens. Stay strong.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.