That is what I figured DX. I am so sorry. It [censored] to be the bread winner, but also be so very proud of yourself too. Ou are a good, and responsible person. Yes, more jurisdictions are going equal access on custody. This is good for the kids in most situations when not parents work. I pay a child support amount based on me earning more, which I am okay with as it is for kids. I pray she does not lose her job and have to pay spousal support (alimony) too. She is litigating anyway, even with her job. I also have to shuffle tens of thousand to her from assets from my side. she blew all hers during marriage so it is gone prior to valuation date. It is a tough pill to swallow that they can be so unethical and profit from it. Just keep your head high because you are the better person. We feel penalized for being successful but that is the law. If your L feels he can get your kids away from OW at this point,mMaybe worth looking at. It is wrong for them. You are loved on this board (((((DX))))) !
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
