Agree with all these recent responses. Likely you will get the ridicule whether you know of it or not. My exW would ridicule the changes in me too...mostly to my face though. She may get to that. Just expect it. What backfired on her most was when she and her friend were making fun of me and my d11 over heard them. It upset her quite a bit and d11 does not like that friend anymore, and certainly thought less of her mom. This hurt the child...just make sure yours are insulated from this as best you no need to snoop, you know what's going on. These are not good friends of hers...they are being very selfish thinking they are supporting her but really it is only for their selfish needs be it for gossip of friendship. Real friends try to help not break up a family of 6, but hey, they have nothing to lose.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.