No no, I said for you TO do it, just once every other week for a bit. I even recommended buying her some meds since she was sick and dropping them in mailbox, and leave. Send a text and let her know there out there, but have no expectations. Don't overdue it.
I certainly don't have a problem with you keeping the door open a CRACK. Like I said above you know what worked last time. Just wanted you to be patient with any responses.