I kinda feel like I don't know what the he1l I'm doing right now, so I agree I am doing THAT correctly.
-PM
Okay...this ^^^^^ made me snort out loud, at work! I think we ALL feel that way, A LOT of the time. LOL.
I was catching up on your sitch. I really have NO wisdom to impart....sorry. But, she does seem to be still reaching for you. And, it is GREAT that she has a friend who seems to be a HEALTHY friend. So many of our WAS's have horrible influences!
I truly hope that she starts to see that being independent, and being with you, can both happen at the same time! I'm still hoping for that "happy ending" for you!