WH, I'm so sorry about all of this. Yes, you are going to have times that you'll be emotional and it's the norm. You've lived in that house for quite some time and there are good and bad memories there. However, your new place is waiting for you and I bet you'll have it nice and cozy in no time.
I'm glad you called him on his behavior and he did help you move. It's going to hit home w/him more and more and especially the very first night he's left there all by himself.
Stay positive and everything will go okay. You've got most of your stuff over there and I'm sure everything will look nice once you've had time to unpack and put things away.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
