So against the advice of fly above ... I sent w a text simply saying "hope u r feeling better. Take care of u"
The "take care of u" line is something that I always told her when she was worrying about everything but her. A few months after bd, when I started my crazy work schedule, w said that back to me. She said "As you always tell me "take care of u""
I figured that since she told me she was sick on Friday, I should send something thoughtful a bit sooner than two weeks. Anyway, no response yet. I will give her some time and space now.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)