Does your XW realize that she has created an impossible situation?

Do you think that maybe she has done this purposely (though perhaps subconsciously)?

How does she think that moving would help things with you? And how does that play into the idea that she needs to make sure she is OK "on her own?"

It just seems to me that right now, you can't win with her.

On the plus side, that would be great if she would get into IC. You should know how lucky you are that your XW has a friend who cares enough about her, and has the courage, to suggest such a thing. All of my H's "friends" and family are enablers.

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14