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So you're asking if you should take advice from a guy who helps you with your debt? Personally, I would say 'no'. I wouldn't even mention therapy. Just keep things business like with her.

So far all of your posts have been about her. What have you been doing for you?


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Well I will listen to you, I dont want to wake up a day asking myself if I really tried....
what I am doing for myself:
I go to work
i am re reading thr divorce remedy book
and going to therapy once a week
thats all I am doing


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And there is a few reasons why I dont do nothing...I am scared of doing something that will screw things even more, the fear is controlling my life. And I feel guilty of notthinking about her 24 hours because I feel that if I dont think about her I am not showing her how much I love her.
I have also doubts if I will be able to do this, if I will become more mature and fix the issues that brought us to this situation. I am affraid she is moving on and she will find another person....
i am just affraid, scared and I wish I could change all this....


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So how are you going to STOP being afraid/scared? She's just a woman. Not a monster.


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Hmmm good question....by working on my issues and GAL?


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No. Write SPECIFICALLY what you are going to do. Actual actions. Also write down what you are going to be doing to GAL.


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Y, get some exercise please, get out for a run in the morning and/or at night. It will help release some tension/frustration, and get you out of the house. Those walls tend to start closing in on you if you just stay there all the time.

Hit the library, plenty of free books to read, gets you out of the house . win/win

If money is tight, its amazing how a walk around the park can be free, relaxing, and get you out of the house.

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I am going to start recovering. I wrote what zctions I am taking. I wrote that I will not drink anymore sodas and I did it great today. Now I have 2 questions:

Do walk away wifes ever contact back or thry are just gone forever?

And one more question:
I watched the waw video and at the bottom says to send it to your wife...should I email her this video??


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
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I am going to start recovering. I wrote what zctions I am taking. I wrote that I will not drink anymore sodas and I did it great today. Now I have 2 questions:

Do walk away wifes ever contact back or thry are just gone forever?

And one more question:
I watched the waw video and at the bottom says to send it to your wife...should I email her this video??


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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I am going to start recovering. I wrote what zctions I am taking. I wrote that I will not drink anymore sodas and I did it great today. Now I have 2 questions:

Do walk away wifes ever contact back or thry are just gone forever?

And one more question:
I watched the waw video and at the bottom says to send it to your wife...should I email her this video??


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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