Oh God, thats exactly what sometimes I need, to have a little guidance. That helps me much more to focus in how to handle this situation, thank you so much 3boyzmom.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I have one more question that I dont know how to handle. we opened a company together and there are payments still coming, we agreed she was gonna keep the first 2 payments but we havent talked about the other ones that will arrive, should I email her to know whats gonna happen with this money that has to arrive? What will be a nice way to ask her about this without her getting upset?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
The majority of people on this board do not live with their WAS. I don't and yet I am still following the book. The entire point of DBing is to focus on YOURSELF. Therefore, it does not matter if your W is living in your house, in another house or on the moon.
^^^This^^^^
ye21- if you've read DR, then read it again. And again. I've read it at least half a dozen times and still when I pick it up I see new things and remember old things I had forgotten. And read other threads on these forums. The threads aren't just for the individual, they are for the entire community. There is a TON of wisdom spread across hundreds of threads in these forums. It's impossible to keep up with every sitch, but you should be reading as much as you can because you WILL find responses to others that apply just as well to your own sitch. You're asking questions that have been answered over and over again in other threads.
we opened a company together and there are payments still coming, we agreed she was gonna keep the first 2 payments but we havent talked about the other ones that will arrive, should I email her to know whats gonna happen with this money that has to arrive? What will be a nice way to ask her about this without her getting upset?
Yes, you should contact her regarding important financial issues. Decide what you're going to discuss in advance. Then call and keep it short, business-like and to the point. Get it resolved and get off the phone.
you are right, I am keep hurting myself, today I went to check her email to see pics of her going out with her friends and that made me feel so awfull. I need to stop with this spiral that is killing me, this need to control.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Get off of her email. Not only is it just going to hurt you , but if she finds out that you are invading her privacy, you are just giving her more ammunition to justify leaving!
sorry I don't mean her email I mean her facebook, I put her name on the search and saw her profile
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Ok guys just putting this out there, my sponsor told me that I should tell my wife not to contact me at all, only to contact me at the therapist office and only talk about things in the therapist office no matter what because its important for my well being... what do you guys think??
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
