own a buz 20: confused within the confusion

[makingmagic]

HI Job and anyone following... thanks for all the advice.

I have made progress for mediation. I have an appointment waiting to be firmed up. Mediation office contaced h this morning, he is rearranging the date to a better suited one because it falls on a busy business day.

For the record, I am not suggesting ANYONE is WRONG... to each their opinion.

But, is it not possible that H is now reaching out? What happened to that DB theory? I too am "skeptic" and scared and want to be CAUTIOUS...but, its not his style to be sneaky or play dirty, he is an honest person.... so not sure WHAT to BELIEVE. Why believe the worst without KNOWING? Isn't that mindreading? Shouldn't I hear him out? What makes everyone 'think' he is stringing me along? When I suggested this as a possibility, I was shot down by Bond and told to stop mind reading!

I am very scared and will absolutely continue with mediation and to protect myself. My h has not veered from agreeing that I need to be protected and secured. Not sure why anyone is doubting this or his tactic.

I have been listening and ACTING on what the posters tell me...