OK (possibly)... why bother to tell me AT ALL? I don't need to know this stuff. If we aren't reconcilling, why discuss it at all?

He is really shocked that I haven't been dating someone. He said he made decisions based that I was done with him, that I said I dont look back once I am done.

He said he wants what we used to have.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)