The majority of people on this board do not live with their WAS. I don't and yet I am still following the book. The entire point of DBing is to focus on YOURSELF. Therefore, it does not matter if your W is living in your house, in another house or on the moon.
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ye21- if you've read DR, then read it again. And again. I've read it at least half a dozen times and still when I pick it up I see new things and remember old things I had forgotten. And read other threads on these forums. The threads aren't just for the individual, they are for the entire community. There is a TON of wisdom spread across hundreds of threads in these forums. It's impossible to keep up with every sitch, but you should be reading as much as you can because you WILL find responses to others that apply just as well to your own sitch. You're asking questions that have been answered over and over again in other threads.