AnotherStander, as other mentioned I'm sorry to hear about your wife's condition. I think you are taking the high road in all things.
I hear you on weight lifting and getting new clothes, doesn't it feel great?! My boss said something about me starting to really fill out my clothes, that was pretty flattering. I hope others are complimenting you on that as well.
Keep up the good work!
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14