Ab Fab, just catching up on your thread. I like the new name. You latest dream could come through one day. It seems that your ex is very confused. Apparently his marriage didn’t change how he feels about himself and things. And yes, his actions are very confusing. I would say he still wants to be connected to you if he would not be married. It seems like he kind of lives two lives at the same time. It sounds like he is not completely invested in his marriage. I don’t know, it is just my impression from what I’ve read here.
You could very well become the OW, LOL. I’m sure you will do fine when you see him. Just be your Absolutely Fabulous!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state