My H is the same way. He HATES that I am a planner. He complains about it. But there are some things that really actually need plans because I have a job too. I have found that as I stopped worrying about some things that were not a big deal, my H has stopped giving me a hard time about the other stuff. I also stopped going to him about logistics and then he eventually came to me and said that he wanted to be move involved. Is there anyone else that you can ask for help from? I am lucky because I have family around that I can ask for help when my H was acting like a jerk.
