Went dark on 1/4/14, need some advice to continue

[DrAnnie]

Thank you for the information. I wrote a separation agreement and the cheapest and quickest way to file a separation and/or divorce is to get the document notarized so that we do not spent ridiculous amount of time in the courts. He has avoided signing anything claiming that he is not ready. Supposedly, he will be coming by tomorrow to bring the papers so we can get them notarized.

I don't really see any hope on our marriage since it would be detrimental to my daugther and I that we wait around for months or years because he gave us the "gift of time" and in the meantime every month she hits another amazing stage in her young life.