That's another reason I am going through the lawyers at this point. There's really no reason for me to contact her anymore. We have everything divided and have no reason to talk about anything except the divorce settlement anymore. If she wishes to reach out about something else she will have to submit it through my lawyer, use the postal service or come see me in person. This is what I need to detach.

I found myself hoping she had changed her mind when it took her a month to send everything over, so when I got it, it reopened the old healing wounds. I am so much better when I don't hear from her at all.


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14