journal: I was working at the church this morning and ended up bumping into one of W's teachers who came in early. She said so sorry to hear about you and W. I said, its ok. I'm just trying to work on staying healthy and taking care of my kids. That's what's best right now. I said, these things work out on way or another I guess.

She said, we'll you have to work at it. I told her, I can only work on me and that's what I am doing each day.

She told me I looked healthy and happy and I thanked her and left.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14