WAW Said She's Done, III Realization setting in

[OneDay]

All I can think about lately is my poor boys, S10 and S7. They are so confused right now and are going to be so much more confused if this D goes through. Neither of my boys ask/talk to me about whats going on, and I don't bring it up to them. But last night I overheard S10 and WAW talking last night before bed. I guess he asks her questions about whats going on every few weeks.

He was asking questions about our current situation. He said "You guys aren't fighting, and seem to be getting along good" He asked if "We would ever remarry each other again?" He said he "didn't want to have another mom or dad". He wanted to know where she/they are going to live. She answered him with calmly with vague responses like "I dont know" or "It wont be for awhile" or "Its going to be different".

If this goes through, their world is going to be turned upside-down. All my boys have ever known was 1 house, with both Mom and Dad there. They always knew Mom was going to pick them up after school. They knew Mom would be there over winter, summer and spring breaks. There was never a thought of after care or summer care. Now this is all going to change.

I feel so bad for them and I cant get them out of my mind. Should I tell them if they ask me, That I don't want to get a Divorce? That this was not my choice?