It doesn't help one bit. He will never know the why - even if he asks her and she gives him an answer. Not only does it give her a reason to be mad, the information he gets from it is useless and only leads to more mindreading. Its a lose-lose - something I am coming to terms with as well.
Me:38 W:39 No Children BD: 5/13 EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13 W Moved out 12/13