It's really a "come along" invite, but I had complained actually, about not feeling valued. rather than his assumption that I would just be coming along to things without his asking.This is what he heard when I said you never ask me out...lol Does that make sense to you guys?
So, he asked explicitly, so there was no grey area. That it was an invitation to me. It is with friends, an activity and then dinner at our friend's place.
I have explained that I may not be able to do the activity because of some work I need to do, but will definitely come for dinner after.
He has also texted me about various future things we are doing.
But that's today's plan, right? We all know how these things go. No wonder they do not remember anything, hard to when the mind is changing every 5 minutes!
Been here before and I have to say, I am feeling a little like our WAW analogy of the squirrel, eying the food from the safety of MY tree.